tell her how you really feel think about it if it was yourson what would she tell you sometimes things happen in life to our kids and we cant always be there to protect them
Just re asure her that she is a good mother and you and all of her friends know that. Like you said accidents happen and the little ones are so fast. The only way to begin protecting them from accidents like that is to think of everything that could happen with the little one before the accident. Like did she have the cord hanging down, could she have prevented that. It doesn't make her a bad mother but sometimes you have to think before the child thinks of his or her actions. Think before the child!