Later on this year when a friend of mine turns 40 she wants me and another friend to go to Sydney with her for a couple of nights to a posh hotel with a spa - massages and facials and manicures. I have said yes (I would love to go) but I have never, ever even left my kids for 1 night. I know that my husband is more than capable of looking after the kids, but still I don't know if I could leave them.
Would it make me a selfish Mum ? I don't know if I would get there and just be wanting to be with the kids
Thanks so much for the advice. I will let you know nearer the time whether I actually go or not :)